Friday 25 October 2013

Memang boleh diharap

Hari Sabtu dan Ahad lepas tiada cuti
Perlu hadiri kursus 8am sampai 12 midnight
Isnin sambung kerja
Selasa dah mula bersin dan badan suam suam
Rabu dah sakit tekak selsema dan badan makin panas
Khamis terus colapse
Badan panas kuat hidung sumbat habis tekak perit
Terbaring je lah

Tapi Alhamdulillah
Sejak dulu Myya pandai bawa diri bila lihat mak tak sihat
Bila ayah tak ada lagilah dia concern
Tolong ambilkan air suapkan ubat
Tolong selimutkan dan kerap bertanya mak dah ok?
Siap pesan tak mo nangis ya demam sikit je ni
Tapi manja tu masih tetap ada
Baru berapa jam tak berkomunikadi mesra
Mula jauh hati dan minta dipeluk...
Hmmmm...semoga menjadi anak solehah..amin
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Wednesday 23 October 2013

Kenal Dulu Betul-Betul Personaliti Diri



 Oleh Murshid Eunos @ mymetro

Siapa mampu meneka karakter seseorang individu dengan tepat. Lain orang sudah tentu berlainan personaliti dan perwatakan diri. Justeru, sejauh mana kita kenal seseorang itu termasuk keluarga sendiri, ada juga terselit sekelumit jiwanya yang tidak mampu kita fahami dengan sempurna.
Kalau dilihat daripada prospek kawan dan sahabat, aspek keserasian dan persefahaman adalah kunci utama yang mengakrabkan lagi antara dua pihak. Kerana persamaan karakter dan minat, dua individu itu menjadi baik.
Tapi serapat mana sekalipun dua kawan itu, sudah tentu ada juga perbezaan baik dari sudut pendapat mahupun personaliti yang mungkin mengundang rasa kurang selesa kepada pihak satu lagi.

Namun sebagai sahabat, sudah tentu kita berpegang pada prinsip menerima seadanya baik dan buruk seseorang itu.

Bagaimanapun jika kerap berlaku perselisihan faham dan pendapat, itu bermakna keserasian sudah mula pudar dan ia petanda negatif untuk sesebuah hubungan persahabatan.

Apa kata kita faham dengan sebaiknya sikap dan karakter sahabat kita agar perselisihan faham atau perbezaan pendapat itu dapat dikurangkan. Pertama sekali kita harus kenal siapa diri kawan kita.

Hippocrates, seorang pakar ilmu dari Yunani membahagikan peribadi manusia kepada empat jenis iaitu Sanguine, Phlegmatic, Choleric, dan Melancholic. Setiap keperibadian ini mempunyai unsur-unsur perwatakan yang berbeza baik dari segi positif mahupun negatif.

Gen Y melihat empat karakter asas manusia ini mampu memberi idea terbaik dalam kita mengenali siapa sebenarnya kawan baik kita itu.


1. Sanguine

Ini adalah jenis manusia pertama yang dijelaskan menerusi teori bijak pandai Yunani ini. Individu jenis ini mempunyai ciri-ciri dan perwatakan diri seperti senang diajak berbual, ekspresif, bersemangat, emosional, mudah berkawan, periang, suka jadi pusat perhatian, yakin diri dan suka membantu.

Individu jenis Sanguine adalah serasi dengan Choleric dan kebiasaannya berbeza pendapat dengan Melancholic.

Kalau melihat pada karakter diri individu jenis ini, sudah tentu orangnya begitu bagus dan komited terhadap kerjanya selain punya perancangan besar dalam merencanakan masa depannya.

Namun ada kalanya individu jenis ini lebih mudah terkesan jika diberi tekanan. Justeru, jika sahabat anda tergolong dalam perwatakan ini, apa yang patut anda lakukan adalah dengan memberi sokongan berterusan agar dia lebih bersemangat mengerjakan tugas yang di berikan sehingga siap.

Individu ini mudah tertekan jika terlalu lama melakukan sesuatu. Jadi sekiranya kamu nampak dia seakan tertekan sewaktu sedang membuat tugasan atau sesuatu kerja, apa kata ajak dia berehat sebentar untuk mengembalikan semangat itu.

Bila individu ini meminta pendapat atau pandangan, berikan yang terbaik padanya dan biarkan dia membuat keputusan sendiri kerana kebiasaannya individu jenis ini dia sudah punya jawapan dan penyelesaian namun menguji untuk melihat dirinya dihargai atau pun tidak.

Sanguine suka dipuji, jadi cuba sesekali kamu memuji kecantikan dan kebijaksanaan yang dia miliki.


2. Melancholic

Jenis individu kedua ini pula lebih menarik dengan memiliki ciri-ciri seperti tekun, serius, teratur, menyukai kesempurnaan, mudah terharu, tidak suka menjadi pusat perhatian, pemalu dan pasif.

Individu jenis ini sangat sepadan dengan Phlegmatic dan selalunya berbeza pendapat dengan Sanguine.

Harus diingat, individu ini sebenarnya sangat sensitif dan mudah tersinggung dengan sebarang reaksi yang kurang berpihak kepadanya. Jadi hati-hati sewaktu berkata-kata dan bergurau dengan individu ini.

Individu ini sering memandang sifat negatifnya berbanding positif. Jadi apa salahnya jika kamu sentiasa ingatkan mengenai kelebihan dirinya agar semangatnya tidak terus tenggelam. Malah sebagai sahabat, tindakan kamu dengan membantunya meyakinkan diri adalah sangat baik.

Kalau dia cuba meluahkan apa terbuku di hatinya, cuba kamu dengar dengan penuh fokus dan fahami perasaannya. Apa yang diluahkan adalah sesuatu yang penting memandangkan individu jenis ini begitu pendiam dan sukar mempercayai orang dengan mudah.

Jangan sesekali bermain dengan ‘moodnya’ kerana dia pasti akan ‘moody’ seharian.


3. Choleric

Individu jenis ketiga ini pula mempunyai karakter hebat khususnya jika dia adalah lelaki. Individu ini adalah mempunyai ciri-ciri pemimpin, aktif, bercita-cita tinggi, tegas, berdikari, berani, emosional dan berkeyakinan tinggi.

Individu ini jenis yang sangat sepadan dengan Sanguine dan selalu berbeza pendapat dengan Phlegmatic.

Jika individu jenis ini adalah gadis, sifatnya seperti ibu-ibu yang ada kalanya kuat membebel. Sekiranya dia menegur kamu, pekakkan telinga saja, niatnya sebenarnya baik kerana dia mahukan yang terbaik untuk kamu.

Bila sedang berdebat dengan individu ini pastikan kamu bijak mengawal emosi kerana pandangan dan pendapatnya sangat tajam selari dengan pendiriannya yang ingin ideanya itu diterima semua pihak.

Bila dia meminta pandangan kamu, terus terang saja. Jangan cuba putar-putarkan kata-kata atau berlapis-lapis kerana individu jenis ini mahukan pandangan yang tepat dan telus bukannya penuh teka-teki.


4. Phlegmatic

Mungkin jenis yang paling mudah dibawa berkawan, individu yang tergolong pada perwatakan ini adalah mereka yang ‘cool’ dan tenang. Mereka begitu rendah diri dan tidak banyak bercakap.

Paling menariknya, individu ini juga jenis yang penyabar dan sukar dijangka. Tapi yang mungkin kurang ‘best’, individu ini jenis yang senang mengatakan ‘YA’ walaupun terpaksa memaksa diri.

Phlegmatic sangat sepadan dengan Melancholic dan selalunya berbeza pendapat dengan Choleric.

Kalau anda ingin memahami sahabat anda yang tergolong dalam jenis perwatakan ini, jangan terlalu tegas bila menasihatinya kerana mungkin sikapnya yang penyabar dan ‘cool’, dia hanya menelan saja walaupun nasihat itu menyinggung perasaannya.

Sentiasa bantu dirinya untuk membuat keputusan dan mencapai cita-cita. Sekiranya kamu memerlukan pendapat dan pandangan, individu Phegmatic sedia membantu kamu kerana mereka jenis yang ingin melihat orang lain tidak berada dalam kemelut atau masalah.

Sentiasa mengajak sahabat kamu yang kebetulan tergolong dalam jenis Phlegmatic untuk dirinya melakukan aktiviti di dalam dan luar sekolah atau kerja. Jangan biarkan individu ini keseorangan.

Artikel ini disiarkan pada : 2013/10/23

Tuesday 22 October 2013

Tips: 31 Things You Can Freeze To Save Time and Money!

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source: http://www.onegoodthingbyjillee.com
The last few weeks I have been in “squirrel mode”. I have been buying large amounts of grapes and FREEZING them before the season ends! I do NOT like the grapes that they have in the grocery stores during the winter months. They are yucky. :-)

And since frozen is my PREFERRED way of eating these sweet little gems…freezing a bunch for winter is a no-brainer.
But this got me thinking about other things I could be freezing. I’m pretty sure I could probably save a considerable amount of money if I just knew HOW best to freeze things that I purchase in bulk. As it is, I’m afraid I end up throwing out way more than I need to. I actually bought a FoodSaver recently to address this problem…but am coming to realize that while a FoodSaver machine is NICE…what I need even MORE is good information about WHAT I can freeze, and HOW.

Well, after LOTS of research…I have come up with my Top 31 Things You Can Freeze To Save Time and Money:
things you can freeze
Cheese
You can freeze blocks of cheese without it becoming crumbly if you let it thaw completely before putting it in the fridge. If you prefer to shred your cheese first, add a tablespoon or so of cornstarch or flour to the bag and shake it to prevent clumping when it thaws.
Another great idea…buy a big piece of Parmigiano Reggiano (the good stuff!!), grate in the food processor and put in a freezer bag. It keeps for months and all you have to do is open the bag and scoop out a couple of tablespoons when you need it.

things you can freeze
Homemade Pancakes, Waffles, French Toast
Make up a few batches over the weekend for quick “defrost and go” breakfasts during the week. Freeze on a cookie sheet, then toss them in a freezer bag. Reheat in the microwave, toaster, or toaster oven. WAY better then the frozen ones you buy in the store!

things you can freeze
Fruit
When freezing fruit, it’s best to first freeze spread out on freezer or parchment paper on a cookie sheet, and then place in bags. Individual frozen pieces let you pull out just how much you need.
Try keeping a “Smoothie Bag” in the freezer. Toss in extra apple wedges, peaches, pears, bananas, chunks of melon…any kind of fruit…and use in smoothies.
If you don’t like handling mushy bananas, just throw the bananas into the freezer with the skin on. Then when you need them for a recipe (banana bread anyone?), pull out what you need, microwave for a few seconds, then cut off the top and squeeze the insides into your mixing bowl!

things you can freeze
Rice
Cook a big batch of rice, spread it on a cookie sheet on parchment paper and freeze. When the rice is frozen, just put in a freezer bag or containers and you have rice in a pinch! Great for BROWN rice which takes so long to cook! Use in casseroles, soups or fried rice.

things you can freeze
Pies
Make apple pies in the fall to enjoy throughout the year. Bake them and freeze them in freezer bags wrapped in freezer paper then when you have a hankering for pie, take out of the freezer, remove wrapping, and place in oven for 2 hours at 200 degrees. You can also freeze SLICES after baking a whole pie. Just don’t forget the ice cream on top! :-)

things you can freeze
Corn
An EASY way to freeze corn on the cob is to put the ears of corn, WITHOUT removing ANY silk or husk, straight into freezer. When you want to eat it, put it in the microwave just the way you put it in the freezer and cook for 5 minutes on high for two ears or 4 minutes for one ear. The silk insulates and protects the corn while it cooks. Tastes like fresh-picked corn!

things you can freeze
Tomatoes
Roast roma tomatoes in the oven at a low temperature (225 degrees) with garlic, fresh herbs, and a drizzle of olive oil for 4 to 5 hours. When cooled, transfer to freezer bags. Use them in chili or in your own tomato-based sauces.

things you can freeze
Pasta
Whenever you make pasta, go ahead and cook the whole package and freeze any leftovers for later to add to soups and casseroles.
Or freeze individual size portions in a baggie, making sure to squeeze out the air and get the bag as flat as possible. Reheat by running hot water over the bag for a few minutes!

things you can freeze
Flour and Other Grains
Freezing flour and other types of grain that come into the house for at least three days discourages any univited “guests” from hatching. You can also store it in the freezer, just make sure to double wrap to avoid condensation and to keep it from picking up other freezer smells.

things you can freeze
Pesto
Make (or buy) and freeze pesto in ice cube trays. Once frozen, pop it out and put in a freezer bag. Nice to have pesto whenever you want it.

things you can freeze
Mashed Potatoes
Using an ice cream scoop, put even portions of mashed potatoes onto parchment-lined cookie sheet. Freeze until hard then transfer into a freezer bag. These will keep in the freezer for at least 2 months.

Cookie Dough
Make a big batch of your favorite cookie dough, scoop onto cookie sheets and freeze. When they are frozen solid put them in freezer bags. When you NEED cookies, bake as few or as many as you NEED without lots of waste or guilt. Just add 1 to 2 minutes to the cook time.
You can also make “slice-and-bake” cookie dough by shaping it into a cylinder, and freezing it wrapped in foil.

Soups and Chili
Cool leftover soup completely and transfer to a freezer-friendly container, leaving about 1 cup of empty space for expansion during freezing. The night before eating, move the container to the fridge to thaw safely and then reheat and serve.

things you can freeze
Broth and Stock
Keep a gallon bag in the freezer and add any leftover veggie pieces, including onion peels, celery stalks, potato peels, etc. When you have enough, make vegetable stock.
Keep another bag for pan drippings or sauces that are left after cooking chicken. This can be used to flavor soups.

things you can freeze
Sandwiches
When you pack lunches for school or work, it’s a real timesaver to pull a sandwich straight from the freezer. Just throw it into your lunch box/bag in the morning and it’s thawed by lunch time. It also helps keep the meat cold. Peanut butter & jelly or honey, or deli meat and a slice of cheese work well. You can freeze butter or mustard but not the mayo, lettuce or tomato. Those can be packed separately or added in the morning.
You can also freeze breakfast sandwiches. Cook scrambled eggs and sausage/bacon in bulk, pile them onto biscuits or english muffins, wrap them individually and then freeze! In the morning grab one out of the freezer, microwave and enjoy.

things you can freeze
Potato Chips, Crackers and Pretzels
Stock up on chips, crackers and pretzels when they are on sale and throw them in the freezer. FROZEN chips actually taste BETTER. Eat them straight from the freezer, they are crisper and the flavors pop.

things you can freeze
Milk
Ever wonder why plastic milk jugs have those circle indents on the side?? They are there to allow milk to expand while freezing! I had no idea! What a revelation!
To use frozen milk, let thaw, and then SHAKE WELL before opening, to make sure any solids are remixed.
You can also freeze buttermilk! No more tossing out half a quart because you only needed a cup!

Juice
Like milk, the only concern about freezing juice is leaving room for expansion. A good rule of thumb is to take out 8 ounces for every half gallon of juice. Stock up when it goes on sale or at a discount warehouse.

things you can freeze
Bread, Baked Goods
When your favorite bread is on sale, stock up and freeze it. Or when you’re in a baking mood, make extras of your favorite baked goods and freeze them for later.
Tip for defrosting baked goods or breads: place them in your microwave overnight. It keeps them from drying out like they do on the counter.

things you can freeze
Buttercream Frosting
Yep. It’s true. Freeze leftover frosting (it would be a CRIME to throw any away!) then when you need to frost something (or just need a frosting fix!) let it thaw in the fridge, then whip it up and color/decorate as if it were just made.

things you can freeze
Tomato Paste
Most recipes using tomato paste only call for one tablespoon out of the whole can! Then you’re left with an almost full OPEN can. What to do!? Put the rest in a little sandwich bag, flatten it out in the freezer, and when you need a tablespoon, just break off a piece and throw it into whatever you are cooking! Saves money, and the paste lasts forever! (Well, maybe not FOREVER…but a GOOD, LONG TIME!)

things you can freeze
Diced Veggies
Dice onions, chili’s, or bell peppers, then freeze flat in gallon freezer bags. As they are freezing, press “score lines” into the bags so you can break off as much or as little as you wish for recipes.

things you can freeze
Homemade and Store-Bought Dough
You can freeze all kinds of homemade dough – pizza dough, focaccia dough, pie crust – shaped in a ball and wrapped in saran wrap.
Or you can also freeze canned biscuits, crescent rolls, pizza dough, etc. right in the tube. Stock up when they are on sale!

things you can freeze
Eggs
Really? Who would have thought? Crack the eggs in a freezer bag, and freeze. Or crack eggs into an ice cube tray for cakes and cookies. Thaw out in refrigerator and use as you normally would.

Shredded Chicken
Cook a big batch and shred or when you get a rotisserie from the grocery store, shred the leftovers and put it in a bag. Great timesaver when making enchiladas!

things you can freeze
Lemon/Lime Juice and Zest
Squeeze lemons and limes into ice cube trays, then pop them out after they have frozen and store in freezer bags. Now you have “fresh” lemon and lime juice whenever you need it. AND, you never have to kick yourself for letting another bag of lemons from Costco go to waste! (Been there, done that.)
Don’t forget to ZEST the lemons/limes first and keep that in the freezer as well!

things you can freeze
Herbs
Freeze fresh herbs in ice-cube trays with a little water or leftover stock to use for soups, stews, and casseroles later in the year.

things you can freeze
Marinated Meat
Place meat in a freezer bag, pour in marinade and freeze. When you defrost it, it will be fully-marinated and ready to cook.

things you can freeze

Homemade Casseroles
When you are cooking a casseroles (lasagna, mac and cheese, enchiladas, etc), why not make TWO and FREEZE one for when unexpected company drops by or to use during a busy school/work week.
You can do this a couple of ways.
1. Freeze the entire casserole by lining the base of the dish with freezer paper, adding the ingredients, then freezing it in the dish. When it’s frozen solid, remove from the dish (easy to do thanks to the freezer paper), rewrap the food and put back in the freezer. This saves room in the freezer and allows you to continue using the dish. When you want the item for a meal, unwrap and place in the original dish to defrost and cook.
2. Bake casserole, let cool, and then cut into individual servings and freeze. Reheat in microwave!

things you can freeze

Fish Sticks
Forget those tasteless sticks in the blue box! Buy fresh fish in quantity, cut it crosswise into fish ‘fingers’, dip in egg, dredge in flour and bread crumbs, then freeze laid out on a tray before transferring to freezer bags – SO much better than anything you buy in the store!

things you can freeze
Hamburger
Don’t ever stress about defrosting a pound of hamburger for dinner again! Pre-cook ground hamburger and portion it out for meals. When you need hamburger for shepherd’s pie, sloppy joes, tacos, or whatever….pull it out of the freezer, add the seasoning, and microwave. Three minutes, or 1 minute and 30 seconds if it’s going to be baked and doesn’t need to be thawed all the way. For crock pot meals, like chili, just throw it in frozen.

Wow! Who knew you could freeze all of those things??  I certainly didn’t! Now I just need a decent sized FREEZER to put it all in.  Definitely on my wishlist. :-)
So what do YOU freeze??